Family Food Weirdness

Dear Liza,

Thinking about Thanksgiving makes me think first about family, of course…..and then food. I guess every family has its own food peculiarities.

Left to right: The Picky Eater, me, and the Walking Vacuum

For example, my brothers had very different tastes. Your great-uncle Jim was such a fussy eater that he just about lived on peanut butter and jelly sandwiches for a long time. For whatever reason, nothing else tasted good to him. The doctor assured Momma he wouldn’t starve, though, so she let it go… and eventually, he started eating regular food again.

Ladies of leisure at Coyote Creek

Elder brother Tim was the opposite. He ate everything, usually piled all together with gravy on top. When he went into the Marines they thought he was too scrawny, so he got double rations until he bulked up. He sure loved that!
Later, when he was stationed in South Korea, he taught a survival course showing fellows what they could live on in the woods.

My Dad loved mostly plain farm food, like roast beef and potatoes, but somewhere in his background he had fallen in love with bratwurst and sauerkraut. I hated the stuff! When I would come home from school and make that ‘eeew, sauerkraut’ face, Momma would shrug her shoulders and say, “You know where the peanut butter is.”

Great Grandpa Lowell and Tim bring home dinner

My Dad, your great grandpa Lowell, usually didn’t cook. In the fifties, that was definitely wifey work. But long before I came along, when he had convinced Momma to spend her weekends camping in various wildernesses, Dad had agreed to be the outdoor chef. He used the cast iron pots (that I still use) to make fried eggs and hash browns for breakfast and all sorts of yummy things for dinner… Dutch oven chili, fried fish, pork chops and mashed potatoes, and even desserts like baked apples or blackberry cobbler. He was a genius.

His one failing was his curried eggs. Made from cardboard-tasting freeze-dried eggs, these led us all right back to the peanut butter jar. Except Tim. He loved them.

Enjoy your holiday food and family. See you soon.

Love,

Grandma Judy

Camping with Our Dads

Dear Liza,

Your Daddy David told me that you and your classmates got to go camping last week. I spent almost every weekend of my childhood camping, so I know how fun it is!

Two year old me, on top of the world!

Your great Grandpa Lowell, my dad, was a great camper. He loved and respected the forest and desert and made sure we were responsible with our trash and our campfires. He always found just the right balance between “just like home” and “roughing it”.

Ten year old me, hydraulic engineer, and Grandma Billie

My favorite thing was playing in whatever water was around. I would make bath tubs for my troll doll, Tina, or soaking tubs for me.

Dinner, caught by Grandpa Lowell and Uncle Tim

When I graduated from High School, my mom’s gift to me was a really good typewriter. My dad’s gift was a ten-day backpacking trip in Sequoia National Park with him, Uncle Tim, and Grandpa Nelson.

Me, Grandpa Nelson, and Uncle Tim, 1974

What an adventure! Grandpa did all the planning, mapping us out a route that was easy hiking with good scenery, near Jerky Meadow. He made sure we all carried enough supplies but not too much weight. We took off two days after my graduation.

We started very early one morning and by that afternoon we had been passed by several badly organized groups of loud, littering hikers. They rambled through the forest with their radios blasting music, yelling and dropping gum wrappers.

“Are we gonna be stuck with them for the whole trip?” Grandpa Lowell wondered out loud.

Just chillin’…

That evening, while we were relaxing, Uncle Tim took off for a walk. He came back in about an hour. “I found our spot,” he said. We put our packs back on and followed him, cross country, for about two miles.

“This is more like it!” Dad said. We were off the trail far enough that we didn’t hear anyone else. We had a whole bend in the river to ourselves, with a sandy bank to spread out on and tall rocks to climb. It was the perfect gift for me, a ready to move out high school graduate who needed one more chunk of childhood before launching into the real world.

And while finding these pictures, I found another: Your Daddy David and Grandpa Nelson, on a hike to celebrate David’s Bar Mitzvah.

Your Daddy David and Grandpa Nelson, 1993

Love,

Grandma Judy