Last night we went over to Auntie Katie’s house for dinner! When I asked what we could bring, she asked for ice cream sandwiches, and I knew just the place to go to get them, Ruby Jewel Ice Cream! We first found this lovely shop downtown, but they have a few branches, and the closest is just about a mile from here, in the neighborhood, if not exactly on the way…. so we stopped there.
At Katie’s there was pasta boiling, meatballs coming out of the oven, and delicious sauce bubbling on the stove. There were also artichokes steaming. Ummmmmm.
I got to chop garlic for the butter, so I smelled as delicious as everything else. Katie poured wine, we set the table, ate and talked.
We heard about Kestrel’s week at “Back Yard Bird” Camp, where she learned to identify all the local birds, and helped us correctly name a black capped chickadee that we have been struggling with.
Auntie Bridgett and I cleared the table while the rest set up the video game “Rock Band”. This is a complicated but fun and noisy game where we hold ‘instruments’ like guitars, keyboards, or drums that are connected to the game and respond when we push the right buttons. A cartoon rock band played music on the screen and gave us directions, and we struggled to keep up.
The first time I saw Jasper play with this, he was just about eight years old and very easily frustrated. He wanted to be perfect the first time and got angry at himself when he wasn’t. Since then, he has had lots of time to practice playing and getting better at it. He has also had time to practice being frustrated, and getting better at that. This, I have decided, is an important skill…knowing something will be hard, and forgiving yourself for taking time to make mistakes. I am so proud Auntie Katie has helped him with this lesson!
In the other room, Auntie Bridgett and Kestrel were having a doll and stuffties picnic. There was lots of giggling and conversations between a stuffed unicorn who had ‘given himself a haircut’ and two very old, beautiful dolls who have porcelain faces, hands and feet.
When it was dessert time, we got out the ice cream sandwiches and everyone got their pick. Yummy, sweet and cold, just what was needed to wrap up a fun evening. We kissed everyone goodbye and drove home to sadly watch the Giants lose their baseball game, then turned in, happy and exhausted.